The Art of Fellatio or How to Suck A Cock

This chapter is for those gals who wonder what sucking a mans cock is all about, think they might like to do it, or already do it but want to learn how to both give and receive more pleasure from it. It will teach them the skills they need so that both they and their partner can receive more pleasure from fellatio.

Studies show that from 50 to 80 percent of women perform fellatio. Of those, 35 to 65 percent find it pleasurable, with the rest saying they can take it or leave it or don’t enjoy it. Other studies show 90 percent of married couples under 25 giving head. If you’re just sucking cock because your man wants you to, read on, your man may find himself waking up in the middle of the night with his cock in your mouth.

Why would a woman like to suck a man’s cock? Why would she even want to put his cock in her mouth? First off, you have to have a man with the right attitude about sex and your needs before you should even think about putting his cock in your mouth or anywhere else in you for that matter, enough said. I’ve sucked a few cocks over the years and talked to many women who have also. Some women submit to sex, some accept it, some willingly participate when aroused, but some really like it and don’t always wait for their man to initiate it. Unfortunately, a lot of those women who only submit to or accept sex simply have a lousy lover. Most women I know who really like sex also like to suck cock. I don’t like to suck cock instead of fucking, I like it as a supplement to fucking. Sucking a man’s cock makes my cunt ache to have one in it. I love to suck him off and then keep working on his cock until I can get him hard enough to fuck me. Those fucks are some of the best I’ve ever had, well, maybe tied with having him eat me first.

But never mind who does and who doesn’t do it, I think that the reasons those who do suck cock do it are similar to the two that make men like to eat pussy, plus a third unique to women. First, they have a loving caring man and the more he likes what they do, the hotter their cunts get. The second is the role that the mouth and tongue play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on his ears, kiss and suck on his nipples, kiss his navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of his body, that thing you love to have thrust into you, his cock. The third is the almost subconscious sexual desire of a woman to draw a man into her body, when she gets hot she wants his cock in her, and her mouth is an inviting place to put it. Put this all together and his cock in your mouth is where it’s at gals.
Just for a minute, forget how good it feels to a man for a woman to take his cock into her soft loving mouth, lick it, suck it, slide her lips down over it until she has her face buried in his bush.

Let your imagination conjure up images of your favorite movie star’s cock in your mouth. It’s live, warm, feel it throb as his hart beats. Feel it pulse as he tightens his muscles. Imagine sucking it inside you and bringing him to climax.
Sucking a man’s cock can be one of the pure pleasures in a woman’s life. It’s sad to think that many women don’t appreciate just how much fun it can be. One reason for this, outside of being with the wrong man, is that they don’t know how to suck cock and so it doesn’t end up being much fun. Because if you mess up, you don’t get your reward. The cock doesn’t get hard, the man doesn’t have a good time and the woman feels like a failure. Other reasons are: a man’s cock is dirty; he urinates through it; he won’t respect me if I do it; he’ll cum in my mouth. The answers are: if he washes his cock, it’s as clean as your finger that you willingly put in your mouth; urine is not poison and doesn’t carry germs, besides he doesn’t urinate when he has a hard-on; he’ll probably love you for it and give you head to boot; he won’t cum in your mouth if you don’t want him to, besides you’ll probably want him to when you get into it.

Many women who do give head seem to think that simply making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man’s cock, and bobbing
But here’s the good news; it’s easy to learn how to be a terrific cock-sucker and once you find out how to do it right, your man will love it and so will you. It’ll take some practice, but that’s work?

What’s Down There
But first things first. Let’s talk about the “basic cock.” LOOK at his cock. I don’t mean a casual glance, study that thing you’re thinking about wrapping your lips around. You’ve had it in your cunt and it felt good there, it just might feel good in your mouth. He’ll be glad to let you look at it, if you want to look at it, you just might want to do something else with it.
Turn on a strong light and get him flat on his back on your bed. Take his cock in your hand and see if you can get it hard. Now, take a close look at it. The main part is called the shaft. There’s a bulbous part near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is called the glans penis or head. The ridge where the head joins the shaft is called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his cock. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There’s a juncture where the two ends come together. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body. Just like your clit, this is where the action is. You can bring him to climax by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. The opening in the tip of the head is the meatus. Here’s where that cum that’s been squirting out into your cunt has been coming from.

The shaft doesn’t have many nerve endings over a particular area or any special nerves. As a result, it doesn’t provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed, either with your hand or your tongue. The shaft will, however, respond to pressure. There is also power in numbers, so when all of its nerves are fully enclosed in a warm, wet mouth that’s sucking and slipping and sliding around on it, the feeling is great. The deeper the better girls.
Underneath the shaft, where it joins his body, is the scrotum, and inside are the testicles (family jewels, balls, nuts). This is where his sperm is created. You’re born with all of your eggs, but he continuously manufactures sperm to fertilize those eggs. They’re also sensitive to temperature, they don’t like to get too hot or too cold. When his balls get too cold, the scrotum shrinks and pulls his balls up against his body to keep them warm. When they get too warm, the scrotum extends to let them cool. His balls are also pulled up against his body inside his scrotum when he’s getting ready to cum. His balls are sensitive to excessive pressure and are all too often ignored as an erogenous area. Big mistake! Men actually like for a woman they trust to play with their balls, if they know how to do it.

Study his cock, play with it with your hand, ask him what feels best. Run your tongue over it, feel the texture, watch his reactions as you lick the various areas. Take some of it in your mouth and hold it there for a while. Watch his reaction and think about how it feels in your mouth physically and what it feels like to have your man’s cock in your mouth emotionally.
There are other parts of a man’s body which respond well to oral stimulation. Spend some time finding them.

Getting Ready
Now that you’ve taken time to really look at his cock and play with it some, you’ve gotten beyond “Parts is parts” and recognize that some parts are more equal than others. It takes a reasonable amount of skill and practice to become a good cock-sucker, to know how to work on those parts in a way that provides him with the pleasure he’s looking for and enjoy doing it. Lets start in with the first lesson.

Where should you be when you’re sucking his cock? Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Actually, any place where you can get his cock in your mouth, a car seat, chair, him standing on his head, it really doesn’t matter as long as you’re both comfortable. However, because of the way his cock and your mouth, lips, tongue, teeth and throat are made and what you have to do to his cock, you can make him enjoy it more and get more out of it yourself by kneeling between his legs. This can be with both of you on the bed or with his hips at the edge of the bed and you on the floor. You can make eye contact and he can easily stroke your head with his hands in this position. Deep-throating works better with slightly different positions but we’ll get to that later, lets get his cock in your mouth first. Lets start out with both of you on the bed. The down side of you being on the bed is that holding your head up while you bend over his cock can tire you if you want to go at it for a long time but it’ll be fine for these first lessons. You can stretch out between his legs and lay your head on his thigh with his cock in your mouth, but it’s hard to do much with it in this position. A fairly common position, which also works well for deep-throating and throat fucking, is with him standing and you kneeling on a cushion in front of him.

We talked about him giving you head on a lazy summer afternoon in the first chapter, sometimes when you’re giving him head, you’ll want to just lie there and play with his cock. Maybe you’ve been fucking and he’s cum a couple of times. You get the urge to give him a blowjob and can probably work up a hard-on for him with some effort, but it’ll take a while for him to cum. The best position for this is probably the same as for leisurely eating pussy, him lying with his hips at the side of the bed, his feet and knees resting in chairs, you resting on a cushion on the floor with his cock in your mouth and his head on a pillow watching you. You can recline there with his balls in your hand and your head resting on his thigh, making eye contact while you suck on his cock for hours. If you want to tilt your head back to deep-throat his cock, just rise up on your knees and have at it. He can easily put his hands on your head in this position also. The side by side 69 position with your head on his thigh and his cock in your mouth is a nice comfortable position, it also puts his face enticingly close to your pussy. Try various positions. See what works best for the two of you.

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